“My analogy is that society sees us as Windows 1 operating systems, but actually we are Windows 10 operating systems on an Apple computer! I have seen for myself that in the right situations, even the most high support needs autistics can thrive!” said Jon, an autistic adolescent.
Recent research, like Lee et al. (2023), highlights the crucial role of emotional safety within the home environment for autistic children. While fostering a warm and loving atmosphere is essential for their growth, the studies also emphasise the need for balanced parenting. This means striking the right balance between offering support and guidance while also respecting their need for autonomy. It acknowledges that children on the spectrum may require individualised space, but finding the right amount can be a delicate yet crucial part of the parenting journey.